Happy birthday, mum ♥

Had a wonderful day today <3

We celebrated my mum’s birthday (it was the 26th but because I was at my dorm we celebrated it today). She didn’t want to plan anything and we decided to just see how our day goes. We went shopping first and then went for lunch in a place called Coffeelabs. It’s the first time I went there and it was so nice! We had a veggie quiche and I had a hazelnut hot chocolate and afterwards a praliné one :’). There she opened her presents and she was so happy! My sister gave her soap and a conditioner from Lush and I gave her a book with ‘letters for mum’ that I personalized a bit. Then we went to a restaurant for dinner and ate kumpir (Turkish). We talked and laughed and made plans and we just had an amazing day. My mum was really happy and we were all full of positivity! We decided to have a family day every month where we come together and do nice things and made a list. Here’s what we have:

• Shopping day
• Cinema
• Go out for dinner/lunch
• Go to the theatre, a musical, museum,.. something artsy
• Cozy night at home with either 1. movie at home, 2. tell stories, 3. have a witchy night with candles and tarot, 4. do a quiz, play board games, 5. have a ladies and beauty care,..
• Bowling
• Citytrip
• Visit our aunt and uncle in The Netherlands
• Relaxation day outside

So every month we’re gonna choose one of these things to do and spend the day together. It was a day full of good vibes and I can’t wait for next month!

Hope everyone is doing well ♥

Now I'm a warrior, I've got thicker skin.

Wow, I haven't been on this blog since August! So much has happened and I kinda forgot about it since I'm using tumblr more and more for personal stuff. But today I had a wonderful day and I decided to start using this blog again.

I don't even want to think about the last time I blogged cause I wasn't in a good place back then. I won't talk about it, instead I will talk about the good things that have happened since then. I am in therapy now and doing much better at the moment. These couple of months have been a rollercoaster of ups and downs but I think right now I'm the most stable I've been since Summer. I'll give a quick update about my life atm:

I'm studying biology now.

I got my first tattoo.

I got my lip pierced.

I finally got the guts to dye my hair completely blue.

I became stronger in a lot of ways.

Right now I'm trying my best to catch up on school because I haven't studied much the first semester. I think I've finally found something close to my interest and I really don't want to lose it. It's science, it's hard, but I'm determined to do this. Despite my struggles I will do my best to pass my exams this year and don't give up. I'm having a lot of support from school now and people are helping me out, giving me tips on how to study and plan things so I'm going to use it and make this my year <3